As I mentioned in my last post, I was recently inspired to blog about my favorite 10 days from my 20 years of life. After some focused remembering, I have come up with that very list. These are the days that left me with the most joy when the night arrived and I closed my eyes to fall sleep. They don’t involve lots of money, extravagant locations, or big groups of people. They are simple. They are happy. They are special. They are mine.
1. Zupa’s with Grandpa R.
Grandpa took me to lunch quite frequently during my freshman year at college. On one of these many afternoons with Grandpa, he called me with an idea to go to a new restaurant he’d discovered called “Zupas.” Of course I’ve never heard of it, Grandpa!! um... He bought me a sandwich, soup, and a piece of strawberry cheesecake, then listened to me talk about boys, school, work…anything. The chocolate covered strawberry he got with his meal became mine because he’s diabetic. But actually because they’re my favorite. We went to Costco next, where he bought a big box of both strawberries and grapes, because “he was out.” Mm hmmm. He was sure to get my opinion of which ones looked the most ripe. He drove me back to my dorm, and I went upstairs. Ten minutes later, he called me and told me that the strawberries and grapes were actually for me, but he forgot to give them to me. Even though I knew his plan from the beginning, I played along. Miss you Grandpa. May 25, 2009.
2. A Night at the Ballet.
Mom, Natalie, and I got all dressed up in our nicest outfits, and I think Mom even let us wear lipstick. It was our big birthday present, because we were both so in love with our ballet classes. We went downtown to the see the Joffrey Ballet of Chicago. They did a Native American ballet, the title of which I can’t remember. I bought a black Joffrey Ballet shirt that I still wear to this day, despite how tattered it has become. After that we went to tea at Marshall Fields (?), which was really hot chocolate. We had some left over scones that my Mom encouraged me to give to a homeless woman we saw on the street. I hesitantly did just that. I cried for the woman on the way home, and Mom told me I had made her night better, just by giving her my warm leftover scones.
3. My 6th Birthday.
This is the birthday I remember the most fondly. I got a big bag of Blow Pops and a new backpack. After we opened presents, Dad and I drove to the church, each of us with a sucker in our mouth, and the backpack in my lap. He kept asking me, “So how old are you today?” “I’m six!” “You’re sick?!?” “No, Dad! I’m six!!” Over and over again. I guess at some point in my life Dad Jokes were funny. When we got to the church, I sat on the stage in the gym watching my Dad play church ball, happily eating sucker after sucker...after sucker...
4. Elizabeth is Home!
Elizabeth came home from her mission in January of 2008. Since she is my oldest sister, it was hard to have her away from us. Us Zippis weren’t used to being separated. When she came home, I felt whole. My six best friends and I were finally together again.
5. A Morning With Lou Lou.
I took Lou Lou on a field trip to the park. We rode paddle boats, ate cheetos, hid from stray dogs, sipped juice boxes, took cute pictures, and chased birds. We were both so happy. I felt honored to let her experience something I took for granted as a child; simply going to the park to play with someone who loves you more than words can say.
6. Bess and Russ’ Wedding.
One of my heroes got married. And not only that…she got married to a man who would treat her just the way she deserved. They are perfect for each other. That day I understood more fully why I want to get married in the temple, and what I should expect from my marriage someday. On top of everything…I finally got the big brother I’ve never had.
7. Snow Day.
We got a lot of these in Chicago, but somehow this one was special. I think it’s because it was the first time I didn’t cry because I would have rather gone to school. This time, I actually used the lack of school to my advantage. The night before the snow day, Mom was reading us Harry Potter when the phone rang. We all knew that a phone call so late at night and during such a big snow storm could only mean one thing. I remember hitting my head my head on the ceiling as I bounced excitedly on the top bunk. The next morning, we made a giant Mountain Woman (the best breakfast EVER), and went outside to eat it in the igloo we’d made in the snow.
8. Goooooooooooooal!!
8th grade. Emily was on my soccer team and Dad was the coach. Championship soccer game. We were the gold team. My last year of soccer before I gave it up for dance. We went into double over time, and Emily gave me the assist to score the Golden Goal. Oh yeah. We had a big party with a lot of pizza after.
9. Christmas with the Hot Wheels From Hell.
I understand your confusion…how could that be one of my favorite days? Granted, the Christmas Eve prior was one of the worst days I remember. I spent 5 hours alone in my tiny bedroom putting together a Hot Wheels City so that it would be ready for my little brother on Christmas morning. Little stickers, confusing instructions, missing pieces. So why was it one of the best days? Because the look on my little brother’s face on Christmas morning was pure joy. He didn’t care about any other presents, and loved the city. The fact that he had no idea I’d put it together almost made it better. He was happy, and that made me happy.
10. Cheetos and Skittles.
Mom took the Big Girls to Grandma and Grandpa R.'s house in Utah, leaving the Little Girls with Dad back in Chicago. Do you know what this means? Naturally, it means that the Little Girls are now allowed to pop in the VHS of Casper, on a school night, in the comfy blue recliner, while eating Cheetos and Skittles for dinner. Ah...that was the life.
Disclaimer: Some of these memories may be altered or exaggerated in some way. That is not my fault. I blame it on the storytelling genes received from my Father.